How Mental-Health Medications Are Chosen
Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c

How Mental-Health Medications Are Chosen

Choosing a mental-health medication involves more than matching a diagnosis to a prescription. Symptoms, physical health, other medications, previous treatment, side effects, cost, and patient preferences all help shape the decision. Learn how clinicians narrow the options—and why the first choice remains an informed trial rather than a guaranteed answer.

Read More
ADHD Is More Than Being Distracted
Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c

ADHD Is More Than Being Distracted

Everyone becomes distracted, forgetful, restless, or disorganized occasionally. ADHD is different: it is a persistent developmental pattern affecting attention, activity, impulse control, and daily functioning. Understanding that distinction can help adults move beyond social-media checklists toward a careful evaluation and more effective support.

Read More
When Your Child’s Anxiety Becomes Your Anxiety
Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c

When Your Child’s Anxiety Becomes Your Anxiety

A child’s back-to-school anxiety can quickly activate a parent’s own fear, guilt, painful memories, and desire to prevent every difficult experience. Supporting a worried child doesn’t require dismissing the fear or joining its most frightening predictions. It requires enough space between the child’s anxiety and the adult’s reaction to understand what the situation actually needs.

Read More
What Healthy Boundaries Actually Look Like
Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c

What Healthy Boundaries Actually Look Like

Healthy boundaries are not demands that other people behave the way we want, nor do they require us to become rigid or unwilling to compromise. They help define what we will participate in, what we can reasonably give, and where our responsibility ends. In real relationships, that means learning to balance clear limits with flexibility, compromise, and the uncomfortable reality that other people may not always agree with our decisions.

Read More
Has Contentment Gotten a Bad Reputation?
Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c

Has Contentment Gotten a Bad Reputation?

Somewhere along the way, contentment developed an image problem. We often confuse it with settling, complacency, or a lack of ambition. But are those ideas really the same? This week's Mental Health Matters explores why contentment may not be the opposite of growth after all, and why appreciating where we are today doesn't mean we've stopped looking forward to tomorrow.

Read More
Where Did the Time Go?
Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c

Where Did the Time Go?

Why does it feel like the years pass more quickly as we get older? The answer may have less to do with the calendar and more to do with the way our brains experience routine, memory, and attention. This week's Mental Health Matters explores the psychology behind our perception of time—and why learning to notice the ordinary moments of life may be one of the most important things we can do.

Read More
Why Everything Feels Harder Right Now
Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c

Why Everything Feels Harder Right Now

Long-term stress does not always arrive as one major crisis. It can build quietly through work, finances, family responsibilities, poor sleep, health concerns, and constant demands, leaving you feeling less patient, less focused, and emotionally exhausted. This article explores how chronic stress affects daily life and why small opportunities for rest, support, and recovery still matter.

Read More
When Holidays Don’t Feel Simple
Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c Mental Health Matters Chris Aman, NP-c

When Holidays Don’t Feel Simple

Holidays can be joyful, meaningful, stressful, complicated, or all of those things at once. This Mental Health Matters post offers a gentle reminder that you do not have to feel festive just because the calendar says it is time, and that being honest about what you can handle is not rude or ungrateful — it is human.

Read More